I know two Dan Savage video Andrew Sullivan re-blogs are a lot for one week. But his advice is so so so so good. He makes great points about qualitative differences between gay and straight sex. Communication is the best thing for good sex.
Dan suggests a four-word question that every straight couple should consider adopting into their sex life:
Dan’s new book, American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love, and Politics, is in bookstores now. My recent conversation with him at the New York Public Library is here. Dan’s previous answers are here. Our full Ask Anything archive is here.